A few years ago, in the midst of a difficult life season, I found myself venting to my closest people. I ranted, sending daily texts laced with anger and annoyance—not at them but at the crazy circumstances around me. And I felt justified in complaining because everything I was saying was true. Sometimes, venting helped. I put words to the hurt I experienced and sought insight from others who knew me and knew my situation. They were able to offer encouragement, advice, and